Just recently, a friend of mine came running to me crying. She had accidentally found out that her husband was cheating on her. She was blindsided! She had the perfect life. A stay at home wife with three kids, never had she thought that he would do such a thing, not even an inkling.She wanted to leave him but she had no job. No work experience. And three kids to take care of her. She had given up her dreams because she had thought that her marriage and children were all she needed.
So let's stop for a second. Was the affair confirmed? Have you confronted your husband? Did you come to a conclusion if you're staying or not? You cannot rush into a decision when emotions tend to over rule you. However, you must create a space for you. Thinking things over would help you focus on reality than on your feelings. You must face your own feelings but do not dwell on them too long. When you do, it would overpower you. That's when you'd do something you regret.
Mind you not every couple can survive this kind of crisis in their marriage. Not everyone is meant to. I am not saying every cheater should be forgiven and taken back but other marriages can surpass this. Some people do not have the strength to survive the hurt that cheating has cost their lives. Some lose their hearts in anger. Some do not even try. But should you?
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